LGBTQIA+ Fertility Options: IVF, IUI, Surrogacy & Donor Choices Explained
There’s no one way to grow your family; only the way that fits your life, your identity, and your dreams.
If you’re part of the LGBTQIA+ community and thinking about becoming a parent, you’ve probably thought of a million questions already. What are my options? What does the process actually involve? How do I get started?
Let’s break it down. At RBA, we’re here to walk you through every option and support you along the way.
A Quick Overview of LGBTQIA+ Fertility Options
No matter your orientation or gender identity, you deserve a clear path to parenthood. Here are some of the most common and effective ways LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples grow their families:
1. Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
IUI involves placing sperm directly into the uterus at the time of ovulation. It’s a popular option for single parents, lesbian couples, or anyone using donor sperm.
2. Reciprocal IVF
This method lets both partners in a same-sex female couple share the pregnancy experience. One partner provides the eggs, and the other carries the baby. It’s a beautiful way to co-create and connect. Learn more about IVF at RBA.
3. Gestational Surrogacy
Gestational carriers carry pregnancies for individuals or couples who can’t or prefer not to carry themselves. This is often a choice for gay male couples or transgender women. We help with medical coordination and referrals to reputable surrogacy agencies. Read more about our surrogacy options here.
4. Egg and Sperm Donation
Some patients need to use donor eggs to grow their families. RBA’s egg donor program is designed to make the process simple, safe, and supportive.
5. Fertility Preservation for Trans and Nonbinary People
If you’re starting hormone therapy or gender-affirming surgery, you may want to preserve your fertility first. We offer fertility preservation services that align with your transition goals and timeline.
Where to Start
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Book a consultation to talk through your goals
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Chat with a financial counselor about your insurance and payment options
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Get connected to affirming mental health professionals if you need support
You deserve a provider who sees you, supports you, and knows how to meet you where you are. At RBA, we have all three and are ready when you are.